Excit adult chat
Why not introduce some friendly competition into the ESL classroom?
Games are easy ways to do this, but you can also have them compete in any activity.
Whether they play sports or games on the Wii, they always try to out best each other.
"It's amazing what getting out of your normal routine and pushing your comfort boundaries will do for your love life," says Sheri Meyers, Psy D.
She's the author of Chatting or Cheating: How to Detect Infidelity, Rebuild Love and Affair-Proof Your Relationship. Another option is to get competitive, suggests Rachel De Alto, a communication and relationship expert in Point Pleasant, N. "When you're physically competing and experiencing new things together, those dopamine levels soar, which replicates those early butterflies and gets you excited," she says. "Whisper sweet and adoring things into your partner's ear.
Remember those fabulous qualities you noticed in your partner when you started dating? Fixating on the negatives wouldn't have worked in the beginning and it doesn't work now.
Time and stress may have brought their less-favorable traits into sharper focus, says psychologist Elizabeth R. "In marriage, it's easy to freeze your partner into a fixed perception. She is a marriage and family therapist in Yorba Linda, Calif.