He had a big position with a top financial firm; I headed up public relations for a health-care nonprofit.
On our first date, although we only kissed, he told me I wouldn't be the same when he was done with me.
I like the idea of a person with boss-like qualities, and I'm not at all intimidated by the idea of an intellectual superior or (not to make a cheesy comparison) what Michelle Obama's husband sees her as.
That, however, is as far as I'll go on the idea of submission; for me, it's just a personal preference tailored to specific goals I have.
These are the questions that I will be tackling today.
Raised in the American Midwest, Colt Williams made a name for himself in dating with a style based on soulful poetic seductions and playful dance floor antics.
When I first met Doug on in 2005, we were 26 and living in Washington, D.
C., both recently out of serious relationships, both working long hours at jobs we loved.
Submission can be to a partner in an interpersonal relationship, such as allowing the sex partner to initiate all sexual activity as well as setting the time and place and sex position.
I knew he was right—I just didn't know what it meant. Doug was tall with dark hair and eyes, but it wasn't his looks that unglued me.
A recent business school graduate, he was smart, confident, and witty. We dated for a few months and had intense—if, in retrospect, vanilla—sex.
His style is all about inspiring girls and drawing them into one’s world.
We all recognise the popular image of submissive men who worship women and get off on being dominated.